I was intrigued by Richard Orlando’s recent article in Private Wealth entitled “The “Perfect” Family Meeting” in that he provided some good steps to preparing for such an event. However, I know that not every professional advisor or set of advisors can conduct such a meeting with just a list of “must do’s”. Even with years of experience in serving the high net worth in advanced planning, it is that one skillful individual that has been trained and is experienced in facilitation and communication that is needed to engineer the process.
“Research shows that the main reasons families are not able to successfully transfer wealth across generations are a breakdown in trust, communication, planning and governance, and the failure to prepare the next generation, “ the article states. We agree. Having been party to these important meetings, there are many things lacking in the succession planning of a family’s wealth and the most obvious are the heirs.
We’ve seen many advisors use Kolbe Indexes or Family DNA Discovery for each family member as part of the discovery phase or in preparation for the family meeting. These tools are a great way to uncover opportunity and understand communication styles amongst the family before you begin your communication with them.
Remember, a family meeting does not need to be scheduled for just the family’s succession plan. It can be for any important topic or communication that the family needs to know about or wants to share. For example, the risk to the family’s reputation or brand, which can have a direct impact on the family’s financial and emotional health if it were to be threatened or the inherent risk of unstable economic times.
The success of a family meeting is not to be determined by the advisors but by the family itself, both as a unit and as individuals.
Kim Hamilton
InKnowVision LLC
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